How Is Collaborative Divorce Different from Court-Based Divorce?
Collaborative Divorce can be a breath of fresh air compared to court-based, adversarial divorce. Here are some ways Collaborative Divorce is different.
Legal:
- No court, and no threat of court
- No argumentative, accusatory or threatening letters between lawyers
- Lawyers work to contain (not inflame) conflict
- Uses effective problem-solving to resolve issues
- Provides emotional support along with legal guidance
- Your family's needs direct the process, not court requirements
- More private (court documents are public, your Collaborative separation agreement is not)
Financial:
- Timely sharing of financial information - no formal measures to force disclosure
- Helps you understand your current financial situation
- Guides you to choose the best financial options for a strong future
- Reduces legal costs and preserves your assets
Psychological and emotional:
- Minimizes conflict and stress
- Creates a cooperative environment where everyone's needs are heard
- Negotiation process is flexible, to suit the needs of each unique couple and family
- Emphasizes the well-being of children
- Gives you more control in both process and outcome
- Paves the way for respectful relationships after separation
- Gives you hope and prepares you and your family for new lives