Collaborative Divorce can be a breath of fresh air compared to court-based, adversarial divorce. Here are some ways Collaborative Divorce is different.

Legal:

• No court, and no threat of court
• No argumentative, accusatory or threatening letters between lawyers
• Lawyers work to contain (not inflame) conflict
• Uses effective problem-solving to resolve issues
• Provides emotional support along with legal guidance
• Your family's needs direct the process, not court requirements
• More private (court documents are public, your Collaborative separation agreement is not)

Financial:

• Timely sharing of financial information - no formal measures to force disclosure
• Helps you understand your current financial situation
• Guides you to choose the best financial options for a strong future
• Reduces legal costs and preserves your assets

Psychological and emotional:

• Minimizes conflict and stress
• Creates a cooperative environment where everyone's needs are heard
• Negotiation process is flexible, to suit the needs of each unique couple and family
• Emphasizes the well-being of children
• Gives you more control in both process and outcome
• Paves the way for respectful relationships after separation
• Gives you hope and prepares you and your family for new lives