Do they have experience working on a divorce that involves children?
Most divorces that do not involve raw emotions have higher chances of being mutual
However, when there are children involved in the process, even collaborative processes can become complicated. It is imperative not to discuss unpleasant matters, including loss of assets or incurring expenses, in front of them.
However, it is vital to keep them updated on the mutual nature of the process. You should inform your children about your emotions towards them and the decisions you will be making about custody. Be sure not to involve them in any legal debate you might engage in.